Post by ¡El Bandito! on Oct 14, 2010 18:44:06 GMT -8
So, as some of you may well know, I love TVTropes.
I found this one, which is particularly pertaining to this site, and thought I should share:
tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SacredFirstKiss
For those of you too lazy to click on the link:
This made me think of some of the cultural differences between Japan and the western world, and is something I'd actually like to address with you all. As it is, we're kind of working with a strange mix of Japanese and Western culture at the moment, mostly western mannerisms with a dash of japanese customs that some of us half-remember or heard somewhere so we're throwing it in.
How authentic do we really want to be? I know that doing this the 'right' way is really important to some of us, but at the same time keeping it as something more easily recognizable and manageable by us westerners means that it's more easily accessible by people who may not be quite as crazy about holding our characters to customs and all.
Thoughts? Opinions? Questions? Preferences? Only vaguely related stories about a first kiss or an anime scene involving one? ;D
I found this one, which is particularly pertaining to this site, and thought I should share:
tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/SacredFirstKiss
For those of you too lazy to click on the link:
This is not so much an Anime Trope as a Japanese cultural trope, but it appears in a number of anime. Whether they're a boy or a girl, a Japanese teen's first "adult" kiss on the lips is a momentous occasion. It is something to be built up to and shared with a very special person — something that is remembered for the rest of one's life. A spoiled or stolen first kiss is an occasion for profound angst and even anger. Consequently, in any anime plotline involving teen romance, the first kiss is an important milestone in the development of both self and relationship.
This is mostly because, unlike America, where kissing is between moderately special and outright mundane, kissing is seen as an extraordinarily intimate act in Japan, almost comparable in intimacy to sex in the States. It is not done in public (anime characters who do kiss in public are either shameless, extremely daring, or Eaglelanders), and parents do not kiss where their children can see them. In effect, the first kiss is the harbinger of a teenager's entry into sexual maturity.
Immature characters will be hesitant to even share drinks or do CPR on someone, for fear that this counts as an Indirect Kiss.
This attitude does exist in the West to some degree, but it is not nearly as significant as it is in Japan, especially for boys. Western culture has the first kiss as a proud "rite of passage" and sometimes a cause for celebration even if it was with a complete stranger. See First Kiss, the parent trope, for more info.
Compare Sex As Rite Of Passage.
This made me think of some of the cultural differences between Japan and the western world, and is something I'd actually like to address with you all. As it is, we're kind of working with a strange mix of Japanese and Western culture at the moment, mostly western mannerisms with a dash of japanese customs that some of us half-remember or heard somewhere so we're throwing it in.
How authentic do we really want to be? I know that doing this the 'right' way is really important to some of us, but at the same time keeping it as something more easily recognizable and manageable by us westerners means that it's more easily accessible by people who may not be quite as crazy about holding our characters to customs and all.
Thoughts? Opinions? Questions? Preferences? Only vaguely related stories about a first kiss or an anime scene involving one? ;D